It is quite naive to assume that popularity is the remedy for loneliness. Unless you think I’m awesome – in which case, you’re right! “Don’t feel alone, because there is always someone out there who loves you more than you can imagine.” ― Anurag Prakash Ray. The psychologist calls it a neurotic and tries to cure it. Please seek professional care if you believe you may have a condition. I am wandering along the periphery. I could not go in: too resistless was the delight of staying with the wild hour, black and full of thunder, pealing out such an ode as language never delivered to man - too terribly glorious, the spectacle of clouds, split and pierced by white and blinding bolts.”,Empty Roads & Broken Bottles; in search for The Great Perhaps. 113. “You will never know the power of yourself until someone hurts you badly.” 2. She’s also the author of,This site is not intended to provide and does not constitute medical, legal, or other professional advice. And when you’re impenetrable, not much can get in. I got up and dressed myself, and creeping outside the basement close by my bed, sat on its ledge, with my feet on the roof of a lower adjoining building. I never understood people very well anyway, and they never seemed to understand me very well either. Showing yourself more love and acceptance may be more important than getting people to know you. Which is really sad when you think about.Sure, it hurts to feel someone doesn’t understand you. The content on Tiny Buddha is designed to support, not replace, medical or psychiatric treatment.
One night a thunder-storm broke; a sort of hurricane shook us in our beds: the Catholics rose in panic and prayed to their saints. I wanted the open road and new beginnings every day.”,“When you're the only sane person, you look like the only insane person.”,“True rebels hate their own rebellion. Discover and share You Dont Understand Quotes. Welcome back. Maybe our very presence forces them to come face to face with something they’d rather avoid.I remember reading an article once about the contentious relationship women often have with their mothers-in-law. “What people don't understand about depression is how much it hurts. Your mind fills with dark thoughts; you become convinced that your friends secretly hate you, you're worthless, and then there's no hope. “Sometimes I’m not angry, I’m hurt and there’s a big difference.” 3. 1. All I wanted was my art and the chance to be the creator of my own world, my own reality. Although very normal, their inner world is by default fronted mysterious and therefore assumed weird. 28. I believe one of our strongest desires in life is to feel understood.We want to know that people see our good intentions and not only get where we’re coming from but get.Maybe, if they’d been where we’ve been, if they’d seen what we’ve seen, they’d stand right where we are now, in the same circumstances, with the same beliefs, making the same choices.We’re social creatures, and we thrive when feel a sense of belonging. So, if you are being hurt or want to know why you get hurt and have sad feelings – check out the quotes below. Like I had no value. I never felt understood or validated, and worse, I often got the sense the other person didn’t care to understand me.This person often assumed the worst of me—that I was selfish and weak—and interpreted things I did through this lens.They would belittle my beliefs and opinions, as if they warranted neither consideration nor respect.And they would even make fun of me when I tried to share my thoughts and feelings, minimizing not only my perspective but also my personhood.
When.I think it’s accepting the other person where they are, even if you have no idea where they’ve come from or what’s driving them.Because even if we don’t know the specifics, we can know there’s some explanation—some complex web of past events and psychological factors that make them who and how they are.It often requires us to create boundaries, whether that means avoiding specific conversations or even creating physical distance in that relationship.It requires us to pause and connect with our deepest intentions before reacting impulsively, defensively, in anger.And it also requires us to mourn and let go of the relationship we hoped to have, knowing we’re offering the kind of compassion and consideration to someone else that they may never be able to give us back.I take comfort in knowing this is the higher road, not because I feel superior on higher ground but because it’s less painful there—for me, and for everyone I encounter in my life.When I choose to be the change I wish to see, it’s less important to me that everyone else sees me, values me, gets me, and understands my good intentions—because.And this is a strong foundation for navigating a world full of hurt people who aren’t ready or able to love.Lori Deschene is the founder of Tiny Buddha.
I cried. ” … Or at least that’s what I did.I fought. She may have been raped on a couch that looked just like yours.”.I know I’ve been there before. But if one takes time to understand her, there is something beautiful to find, something simple to be loved.
I am the people in the other cars, each with his or her own story, but passing too quickly to be noticed or understood.“Her complexity is a glorious fire that consumes, while her simplicity goes unapproachable. Never underestimate the social awareness and sense of reality in a quiet person; they are some of the most observant, absorbent persons of all.”,“The point was to learn what it was we feared more: being misunderstood or being betrayed.”,“When the person you love can't see your love for them beneath the painful things you say when they reject you, remember this: Love is blind.”,“What people don't understand about depression is how much it hurts.